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ADHD in Children - How to Get Your Child to Listen to You (Part 3)
Stage 3: Not Only NO But You’ll Pay For It
Here’s what it feels like: At this stage, most parents are so miserable, they’re trying to find a way out.
Here’s what your child does: My son was at this stage when he was 8. By then he was hitting us and hurting our feelings all day long. If your child is going to be aggressive, this is when we see it most.
Here’s what parents typically do: If you worry what your child will do if you ask him to do something (he doesn’t want to do), then you’re stuck in this miserable state. If you’re changing your behavior to please your child so he won’t rebel, then he knows you’re afraid of him. He will use this to his advantage at every opportunity.
Here’s what to do instead: 1. If your child is hitting you, that is unacceptable. Please ask your child’s doctor to tell you how to get additional training in how to protect yourself.
2. In addition to those things suggested in the first two stages, you need a complete system you can use each day to prove to your child that you’re plan will prevail.
3. It is wise to find a guide who has solved this. A guide shows you how they did it. A guide is there beside you encouraging you, not walking behind you or egging you on.
With Respect Effect Parenting, most parents report a 50% behavior and attitude improvement the very first day they use this system at home with their child. It works because your child SEES the plan and SEES you sticking to it. He can’t argue with a schedule on the wall. He can argue with Mommy who sometimes backs down from him.
The MOST IMPORTANT THING to do is get started right away, because this WON’T go away by watching and waiting.
You Can Improve Child Behavior
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If now is a good time to get your child’s attitude and behavior under control, I invite you to use these parenting tips to get started. If you want more tips, I invite you to claim your free report “Seven Simple Ways to Get Your Child to Listen to You!” You can download it when you sign up at http://www.AdhdParentingTips.com It explains the methods I used to transform my son’s ADHD/ODD behavior from out-of-control to almost normal in 3 weeks. You also get 3 free videos: “How To Prevent Temper Tantrums.” The sooner you start this, the easier it is to help your child. You CAN do this. From Debra Sale Wendler - Respect Effect Mom and Respect Effect Parenting athttp://www.AdhdParentingSuccess.com |
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Sincerely yours in parenting success,
Debra Sale Wendler
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