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ADHD Parenting Tips: First Parenting Success Chat of 2009 - Today

The first Parenting Success Chat/Teleseminar of 2009 is today!

 

You’re coming, right?

 

Here’s the scoop:

 

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=> Sunday January 11th

4 pm Eastern (3 pm Central, 1 pm Pacific)

Teleseminar/Webcast (listen by phone or computer)

 

http://budurl.com/ParentingChat  <<<<<<<<<<<<<<

 

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In case you haven’t attended a teleseminar before,

you simply call in by phone or login by computer

and you can hear me talking. Best part is that lots

of your online friends will be listening, too.

 

You’ll get the phone number to dial when you sign up.

You’ll also get the webpage you can go to.

 

That page even has a Study guide so you can follow along.

It’s a good idea to call in or login a little early so you can

print out it out if you want.

 

Topic:

“How to get your child to listen without arguing.”

 

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http://budurl.com/ParentingChat <== Register Here!

 

 

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When you sign up, check your inbox to confirm that

you want me to send you the login information, OK?

 

Even if you cannot attend, register anyway,

so I can send you a link to the Audio Replay…

 

Here’s just a sampling of what will be discussed

during the teleseminar…

 

The secret to getting your child to listen.

 

The four (4) things it takes to solve your

child’s behavior problems.

 

How to stop the frustrating no-win arguments.

 

How to get your child to stop hitting siblings.

 

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http://budurl.com/ParentingChat <== Get the Full Story & Register!

 

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We’ll be waiting for you.

This is gonna be great, so

 

Get Ready To…

 

Discover a better way to get your child

to start listening and stop arguing.

 

I’ll be making a big announcement on this call

about a new free service you don’t want to miss.

So sign up and dial in, OK?

 

And listen how how you can get your free

15 Oneliner Comebacks that Stop Disrespect as a special

thank you for attending.  

 

 

 

ADD ADHD Parenting: Building The House of Respect - Preparing Your Child With Values, Skills, and the Success Mindset

It’s easy to get so busy raising our kids that we lose scope of the ultimate goal. That goal is to prepare our children with the values, skills, and mindset for success.  

A widely-accepted definition of success is the ability to support oneself in a career he enjoys. It includes the ability to create and maintain enriching relationships. And requires remaining a law-abiding citizen not dependent on drugs or alcohol.

I have an embarrassing admission. It bothers me that I got so involved in running this business, that I lost track of some of your goals, too. 

That is why I’m focusing more on connecting with you, to find out what you want and need to assist you in parenting. 

On thing is certain. You want the BEST information out there to help your child be the best that he or she can be. 

That is why I’m forcing myself out here to the end of the high dive to make this commitment to you here before the blogosphere and the world. 

I will write an informative article or blog or Twitter post, or host an online webcast, tweet event, or teleseminar at least every other day for the next 365 days, no matter what, even if I’m in traction in Tecumseh, and there’s a tornado. (I could go on and on with that from A-Z!)

You see, here’s the thing. I figure if you’re out there in the trenches parenting, I can at least provide assistance when you ask. That’s just right. 

The core theme of our dialogue will be - Building the House of Respect. Because when you have the tools and techniques with which to provide your child with what he needs, he will feel more understood and respected. In return, he will improve his behavior at home and school to win your favor. 

That’s the Respect Effect promise. That is a worthy goal for the New Year.

I propose we accomplish this in 3 main ways.  

  1. Educate you about the signs and needs of children with ADHD and ODD. 
  2. Continue your education with me to prepare your child for success with Respect Effect Parenting.
  3. Create momentum through alliances, connections, and synergy with like-minded thought leaders and vendors.

You’ve already discovered that regular parenting does NOT work for kids with ADHD, ODD, Asperger’s, and autism. If your child has been diagnosed with one or more of this conditions, he’ll benefit from your using additional tools and techniques that respect his learning and communication preferences.  I am committed to provide those tools and techniques to you in the fastest, easiest, and most economical way possible.  

And so to start, I invite you to see your parenting role as the builder of the house of respect. 

The foundation of this house is your parent-child relationship. If your child is angry now, you may have a little work to do on this. That’s the easiest part. Within only 15 minutes a day, you can strengthen your relationship a lot within two weeks.  Without this crucial foundation, your child will continue to ignore and challenge you.

The walls of this house, the structure, is the predictable order of the day.  So your child can SEE you have a plan and are sticking to it. 

The ceiling of this house, what your child is always looking up to, what holds the tops of the walls together, is reward. That is your child’s reward for sticking to your plan. 

What holds all this together is your consistency. That’s 90% of your success.  That’s easy because when you feel the good feelings of your child’s increased respect and cooperation, you’ll WANT to stick with it, too. 

With this framework complete, you’ll have the right place in which to prepare your child with the values, skills, guidance, discipline, and good character he needs for a happier and more fulfilling independent adult life. That’s the finish out, the lighting, the finishes, and the sparkle.

That is my blueprint for building the house of respect and preparing your child for success. And that is my pledge to you. Along the way I will educate, motivate, support, and yes, entertain you. We might as well have some fun while we’re at it, right? 

OK, that’s a lot for now. Until our next conversation, I’m here for you… 

Meanwhile, please follow me at http://www.twitter.com/adhdparenting

I appreciate you. 

Sincerely yours in parenting success,

Debra Sale Wendler

Respect Effect Mom         

Parenting Advice: How This Mom Raised 2 Millionaires…

Do you know Matt Bacak?  Not only is Matt one of the world’s most successful internet marketers, he is also a community-minded family man. And he has ADHD and dyslexia. 

I’ve known Matt for several years now. After witnessing what Matt accomplishes consistently, seeing his diligence, his work ethic, and his commitment to his family, friends, and community, I have enormous respect for him. Because I know what he overcame to accomplish all this.  Read the rest or post a comment »

Child behavior: How to Survive the Holidays…

If your child tends to fall apart on holidays, then let’s make this holiday different, OK? Much of your happiness during the holidays with your child, depends on what you do today, starting with your forecast.

Your child NEEDS structure, a predictable order to the day. The holidays are often filled with visitors, parties, and outings that don’t fit neatly into your existing structure. This irregularity makes your child feel anxious, worried, and insecure because he doesn’t know what’s going to happen. Read the rest or post a comment »

Your Child’s Behavior: Do you want more of this next year?….

Read the rest or post a comment »

Holiday Shopping: Temper Tantrums - How Can We Help?

Sometimes we ASK for help and advice, but we reject it if it’s not what we want to hear. If we don’t already trust and respect the person, we’re more likely to disagree, no matter WHAT they suggest, right?

So even if someone asks for help, it may be wise to enter in very reluctantly and with very few words. Read the rest or post a comment »

Tonight Matt Bacak Interviews Debra Sale Wendler - Respect Effect Mom…

This is it…

How you can have your first peaceful holiday season
with your child, perhaps ever…

Sound good?

Internet millionaire, Matt Bacak, whose mother used
many of these same methods to help him become the
happy and successful family man he is today,
interviews me TONIGHT. Read the rest or post a comment »

If you’re not using these strategies to overcome overwhelm…

...You might as well not bother doing any of this.
THAT'S how important overcoming your own overwhelm
really is to solving your child's behavior problems... 

And how important this next Respect Effect Parenting
TeleSeminar is for your success...  Read the rest or post a comment »

Tonight’s Respect Effect Summit Event - SuperCamps and Quantum Learning’s…

DATE: December 4, 2008
TIME (9:00 p.m. Eastern - 6:00 p.m. Pacific, 8:00 p.m. Central)

FR: Debra Sale Wendler and Bobbi Deporter

RE: “Moms Opening Doors to Opportunity” Free Teleseminar

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You’ve heard of Bobbi Deporter, haven’t you?

She’s one of the world’s top speakers on learning. Read the rest or post a comment »

ADHD School: Homework Problems Solved - This Gift…

Tonight’s Respect Effect Parenting Success Summit Event

Session 1 - Kumon - No more homework police

Remember when you were little and you had that ONE
gift you were just DYING to give your mom or dad?

Just thinking about their opening it made you feel
fantastic…

That’s how I feel about this session with
Dr. Mary Mokris of Kumon North America.

Listen, if you know anyone with a child who’s struggling
in school, send this to them. They’ve just GOT to attend
this session.

Read the rest or post a comment »

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